In contrast to males, females have the capacity to experience orgasm in lots of ways. They can have multiple orgasms without ever tiring up; they experience multiple kinds of orgasms such as clitoral and g-spot orgasms, vaginal orgasms, ejaculatory and blended orgasms, and these also come in various combinations. The clitoris is the only human body part which serves no other purpose than to provide sexual pleasure. Women have a lot of advantages over men when it comes to sexual arousal.
In spite of numerous possibilities, many women still suffer the frustration of not reaching their peak during sexual intercourse; she contents herself with the passing and unsatisfactory pleasure which is almost a letdown after the male partner reaches orgasm sooner than she does; sometimes a woman may feign pleasure in order not to disappoint her partner and she fakes an orgasm just to please him. Other times the faking does not fool the male, and he suffers from self-doubt, and a feeling that he can’t deliver what is required of him.
In order for these stigmas to be dispelled, both partners should free themselves from the misconception that it is the male who causes the orgasm. Women give themselves orgasms through stimulation. If a woman is mentally conditioned to experience an orgasm, no amount of stimulation can get her to her peak. The realization of this fact alone gives the woman the drive needed to prepping herself for her peak. It takes the load off of a man’s shoulders and gives the woman the control she needs for sexual fulfillment.
Women generally reach the orgasmic stage through stimulation of the clitoris, which is extremely sensitive to touch. Once the woman is wetting for at least 20 minutes, or if the man feels that she is near her climax, penetration with the penis is the best way to cap it off. But make sure that both partners are protected with the use of condoms. Latex condoms are great because it takes the worry out of the pleasure. Lubricated durex condoms also add sensation to the experience without compromising the couple’s safety.
Stimulation of the G-spot is also a great way to give a woman the experience of orgasm. Applying slight curling pressures in the front side of the vaginal wall may stimulate her if she has a G-spot to begin with. This process is tricky as it requires a little fussing and massaging in order to reach this area. Also finding the right pressure to stimulate this spot can also take a while.
Another sensitive part which leads to orgasm is stimulation of the first two inches of a woman’s vaginal canal, since this area contains a lot of nerve endings; the elusive g-spot is also located within this area, and proper stimulation with either the tongue, the fingers, or the penis will lead her to orgasm. It is recommended that before penetration, the male should use condoms for protection. Lubricated latex condoms may also add to the sensation of contact. Durex condoms are effective means of having sex without the dangers of disease transmission.
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