Five ways to tap into the special side of your Woman

It’s not the big favors that make a woman feel good about herself, but the little special things that add and build up; they don’t count favors, they appreciate it.  If you’re looking for a way to make your significant other feel and look beautiful, think of this simple truth the next time you want to do her a favor.  If you are still having problems with what to do, these five tips may help.

Face it, women just can’t get enough of shopping, and yours probably isn’t an exception.  Why not give in to the “if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em” motto, and accompany her on a shopping spree?  You’ll get to spend real quality time with her, and she’ll surely be grateful for the company.  Help her choose shoes and lingerie, whatever tickles her fancy; occasionally buy for her accessories which may be expensive, but will be a great gesture of your appreciation for her.

Women are hopeless romantics; they’re just made that way.  Get in touch with your woman’s carefree side by planning a surprise trip for her.  Make sure that it is something which is particularly special for her, and keep it top secret until the big day.  On the day of the trip, as soon as she wakes up or arrives from work, have the suitcase ready and take advantage of the element of surprise to take her away.  Make sure that her schedule fits with the trip though, and that the getaway is arranged for her pleasure, not yours.

You’ll be amazed to find out how much women love the little nifty things which you can do for her ‘just because.’  They see big and small favors as treats of equal value.  So, in addition to the ‘major’ gifts you buy for her (a diamond ring perhaps), make sure you keep her fire burning by affording her nifty perks; an affectionate goodbye kiss, for instance, or flowers and chocolates bought ‘for no particular reason.’ 

To tap into your woman’s sensual side, treat her to a whole day of pampering.  You may start the day by affording her breakfast in bed (make sure that you do know how to cook though!), followed by a full spa escapade.  You’ll get to spend quality time while having the treatment, as you are both relaxed in such a stress-free setting.  Then offer to take her out to dinner to a fancy restaurant.  This serves as a culminating experience to cap off your whole day together.

Since the subject is concerned with build-up, your woman will probably be more ready to step over from the sensual side to the naughty, after such a great day together.  Take every opportunity during your day experience to drop innocently naughty hints that’ll give her a clue of the possibilities you have in store for her.  Begin by commenting on her dress, her hair, all the while keeping the hints progressively explicit; by the time you reach home, you’ll find out that your well-meaning efforts are duly noted and well-rewarded.

Remember, the key to making an effort work is to include the ‘us’ factor with each favor.  Let her know that the favor is made by you, as a loving gesture for her, and it will surely be appreciated each time.